Happy Friday (the 13th ooou scary) my loves!
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I saw this on a few other blogs and actually liked this one, so I thought I would give it a whirl!
Why not it’s Friday right? And it’s not like I don’t have a test to cram for or anything.
Pssh. Test. Study.
Who does that?
So here we go. A little Friday fun!
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10 Questions About My Personality
1. When a cashier in the checkout line at the grocery store is being a grump for no reason, how do you typically react?
I’m actually awesome at this. When cashier’s are crabby I almost always make a joke. Like I’ll say “bad day huh?” or “hope you’re getting off soon”. Key is to always say it with a smile (or they may think you’re being a jerk) but I feel a lot of times people aren’t aware that their attitude is so readable and sometimes the little comment will a) make them realize things may not be that bad and they should have a better attitude or b) at least be aware that people are noticing they are being crabby. I typically can get a smile out of people and I hope I made their work day just a little less bad. But let’s be real, working in customer service sucks.
But sometimes I’m not going to lie, if I’m in a bad mood too, they get the stare. Haha. Although sometimes when I’m in a bad mood, and I see others in a bad mood, it makes me realize I’m being crabby and maybe I shouldn’t take things so seriously. It’s all just a big circle.
2. Are you the type that likes going out with your girlfriends or staying in?
Kind of both. I love being with my friends. But I feel like I am past that point of going out and partying. I did that in college. Got it out of my system. Now I much prefer to sit at home with the fiance, watch some TV, and just relax. Matt and I are so busy, that sometimes it’s just nice to sit. And do nothing. But I do love my friends. Don’t get me wrong. ♥
3. Do you sob and get emotional watching romance movies?
I use to. And now, not so much. Unless it’s real sad, like true sad. Not like oh no the guy didn’t get the girl. More like a real story, something that’s based on a true story, that is just really sad. Does that make sense?
4. What stresses you out the most?
Right now school. And recovering from my eating disorder of course. I constantly think of both. I need to settle down, relax and let things happen. I’m doing great in both actually. So I need to realize I need to focus on my positives and not my negatives. Accept what happens. And when it happens, good or bad, take it for what it is and move on! Sounds easy right?
5. What do you think people think of you?
Gosh. I don’t know. And I am finally at a point where I don’t care! I actually am focusing on me. Getting healthy. Achieving what I want to achieve. And I’m not letting anyone stop me this time! Now don’t get me wrong I don’t want people to think I’m a pompous jerk. (I had a girl in my class say at first she was totally intimidated by me). I feel like I am a very caring person and would basically bend over backwards for a stranger. But if someone is going to judge me before knowing me, that doesn’t really bother me anymore. I’m working on bettering myself right now and I’m proud of the woman I am becoming!
I am super nice though. I promise 😉
6. When you overindulge do you hit the gym to burn it all off, or just accept the indulgence and follow your same routine?
At this point in my life (and recovery) I can’t just go hit the gym. But, I have a totally new outlook on this. Before? I would hit the gym or restrict, but through my recovery process I have learned that not only mentally should we accept the indulgence for what it is, indulgent, but realize that if we indulge one day, it is not going to impact us long term. I mean scientifically it’s just not possible! Permanent weight gain takes years. You heard me. Years. I also feel if you deprive your body of what it really wants, it is only going to crave it more. And then you might over-indulge (if that even exists). I’m learning just to enjoy life. And if I want a piece of cake, I’m going to have it. And if I gain a pound. Who cares. I’m sick of living by all these rules. I just want to live life and be happy.
7. Are you easily annoyed?
It depends. I’m usually pretty easy going. Again, maybe that comes with age. I’m done with the drama, and done sweating the small stuff. Not going to lie I have my little quirks (using this word always cracks me up because it’s Matt’s last name. Soon to be mine. gah!) So sometimes super small things do annoy me. I think everyone has those though. Maybe that’s why I’m going to be a vet tech. Animals never annoy me.
8. What do you think is your biggest personality flaw?
Sometimes I tend to overreact before I really think about whats going. I’ll so angry in a flash, lash out (typically at Matt, poor guy) and then almost instantly regret how I acted and have to apologize with my tail in between my legs. If I just thought about things before reacting I could probably save a ton of petty arguments. Seriously, I got angry at Matt for not leaving enough hummus in the container last night. I mean really? Is there a proper amount you’re suppose to leave? As soon as I was done yelling, it was kind of a “are you serious” moment I had with myself. I’m working on it.
9. What is one thing you don’t think people see enough of when it comes to your personality?
I don’t let people see that I struggle. School, eating disorder, no job, family problems, sick grandma. It all takes a huge toll on me, but I still don’t like to bother others with my problems so I don’t let it show. So when I get sad, mad, frustrated, it looks like it comes from no where, but it’s coming from a whole bunch of internal garbage. I need to be more vocal and talk about what’s going on with me.
10. Can you feel relaxed in a busy crowd or messy room?
It depends on what. Certain things I’m the messiest person ever, other things I’m OCD clean freak. I can’t even explain it. Desk = organized. Clothes/Closet = not organized. Fridge = super organized. School stuff = all over the freaking place!
Yes my Chobani’s have to be lined up. By flavor.
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Well loves I hope you enjoyed reading a bit about at least what I think of my personality. Have a wonderful weekend!!
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Answer one above about yourself!
Do you have scary Friday the 13th plans? I kind of want to watch some of the movies! How cliche I know!